Asshole Wife. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Nearly killed the husband.

I get easily annoyed when people asking me the same thing over and over again. Especially I’ve said “I don’t know, you should ask the relevant people not me.” Yet, he won’t stop asking even hearing me said. I snapped. Holy mother of god! I get so so so annoyed! And I asked him why? Why I already said I don’t know, and he still ask? He was like I thought you know.

LIKE FUCKING SERIOUSLY. DID YOU NOT HEAR WHAT THE FUCK I JUST SAID? I DON’T FUCKING KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You thought he would felt hurt after me screaming?

Oh hell no! He is laughing because I’m mad. What the fuck is wrong with the man?

I do feel bad for screaming at him. I mean, I wouldn’t want him to scream at me. But dude, stop being so annoying? Like can you feel how I feel? When people already said don’t know, I’ll stop asking the question already.

I know I have to be patient. But how? People always said that I am short tempered, I blew up easily… Can you imagine what kind of person I am dealing with? I really could stab someone right now. #dayrepregnancy

@Infinityplusone this post is specially dedicated to you.

I felt like shit now. Asshole wife.

My vermicelli which I’m not expecting to look like this. #dayrefatties

I am affected. Damn it hormones. I felt like shit, so I texted him right away. I think I was emotional I wanted to cry because he still can laugh about it even I’m so fierce.

Damn this guy playing with my mood?

Randomly asking him if he wants anything from L’OCCITANE in the midst of anger. LOL.

This is another story to share < The Unglamorous Pregnancy – Body Odor >

Calming myself with frozen yogurt and fruits. I was the Nutella fans okay. I always get the small size, pairing with Nutella only. But every Wednesday Ilao Ilao is giving discount based on the numbers of the week. So I get 11% off this time.

Tasted so good! My mood has been lighted up after the first bite. Haha.

So much better now. 😇

How do you deal with colleague who’s always take you for granted?

I don’t mind being the driver, I don’t mind paying tolls, but at least contribute for parking ticket maybe?

So, we went for lunch together most of the time. There’s one of my colleague who’s always not contributing where others will just pull out money to pay for parking automatically. Depends on who’s driving.

Today, colleague A decided to kinda “voice out” regarding of this matter. But you know what?

She doesn’t even care.

I never see her pay for anything. In the group, we sometimes pay for each other’s drink. Not the super fancy kind la. Like mamak stall. She didn’t say anything. Others would say thank you and pay for another round.

I got quite annoyed by her action.

Isn’t this the most common social etiquette?

She sees everyone pull out money for ticket, but she never did that. Wtf?

Am I the fussy one?

Have to have this every night.

Hahahahha. What the fuck! #tanmomo_ you grow so big!

I think I want a warm milk before sleep cause I’m hungry.

LDR & How We Go Through

As we grow older, we have lesser fight and more great big hugs for each other as a goodbye gift.

We’ve always been in a long distance relationship since we started dating in 2010. I was in Malaysia/Australia and he was in Taiwan. Long story short, our dating LDR lasted till 2015, the year we got married. We’ve thought this is it, we can finally stay together as a normal couple. We were staying with the in laws, the experience wasn’t the worst but it wasn’t the greatest as well. John left his own home at the age of 16, for the 10 years of growing up as an adult he did not spend as much time together with his family. So, there are lifestyle differences in living together. Don’t even mention about myself. I am considered as the “intruder” LOL!

We stayed in for 1.5 years. John got better offered to work in JB.

We discussed and decided that he should take the offers and move to JB while I will stay put in KL. John move to JB March 2017, I move back to my own home same time. Well, it make sense that if my husband is not staying at his own home, I can move back to accompany my parents right? I helped him moved and settled down in JB, also meet up with my uncle’s family over there, then I flew back to KL.So, our after marriage LDR begins again.

We set rules for the LDR since day 2010:

1. Call everyday
2. Discuss everything
3. Reporting 😂 I mean, you have to let your other half know with who, at where, and when you are doing/going/planning. This is the least security that you can offer to your LDR if you want things to work.
4. Be patient.
5. Be good at writing –> useful when you two got into a fight. Haha!
6. Trust. Loyal. Have morality. Healthy relationship etiquette.

Basically, communication is the key.

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This time, the difference is the traveling type. It used to be by plane so we only send each other to the airport and say our goodbyes. But now, he drove. Up and down from Central to South.

We see each other twice a month. I’ll flew down South, first week, he will drive down third week. We maintained this way until #tanmomo_ happens. I’ve always been worried about him driving alone. So, I made him call me every time he started his journey back home or back to work. No matter what time it is. It is hard, stressful because we have our own thing to juggle but this is the only way I know he stays online and safe. Unless, he has his colleague carpooling with him. But yeah, I am glad that he is okay with his crazy overprotective wife. Also, I am glad that he is finally coming home! I have to thank my son for this. If it wasn’t him, his dad probably will not come home for another 2 years.

To be honest, John sacrificed his career for us. He has so many opportunities over there but he choose us. He said, he is not going to miss out the most important moment in life because of money. Well, I threaten to make momo called him Uncle if he don’t stay with us too 👉🏻👈🏻. Haha! So, he is very very lucky to secure a job with his desire pay (maybe slightly lower but can stay with his family so it’s okay lah…) back in KL. We got so many bottle of champagnes since we knew he got hired but have to save it first cause I can’t drink yet. But yeah, he is the hero of our little family. I really appreciate his “homey instinct”, always want to be with his family. Maybe he is not up to some people’s standard, but he is improving and trying hard. I am witnessing this. Can tell it by how my parents are behaving. LOL.

👩‍👦:We love you infinite and back daddy! Be with us, forever and always.

We are settling down in MK once he is back from JB. I don’t think this will be the last move or LDR anyways, because he is an Engineer.

Getting Ready For The Wedding

When you get the permission to grab everything you grab it alright?! I still got two bags in the cabinet cause this space is too small! Hahahahaha!

Need to go Ikea to get some storage. But he hates Ikea. He wants to go Robinson. Well… I want to be on budget. He choose to spoilt.

Punishment for keeping us open the door to let them in and out.

This one is purely enjoying the moment.

Okay. John is mean.

Waiting for time to pass.

Didn’t expect this to happen on a Sunday hey.

🏮中秋節快樂🏮

Even when own bf complain to us. Hahahahahahaha. That’s even more awkward.

Ew… Don’t know why? 😌

For spoiling me haaabiiii!

Is my husband deaf or something? Play the music so loud 😠

It’s our wedding day!

Getting ready for the day! Got up at 4:30am to shower while waiting for my MUA.

 

Butler service are kind enough to change my bed sheet to red to add more celebration.

I know. The photographer forced me to do this.

Right after all the games…

So cute. Hahahah.

This heels is outstanding

Tea ceremony was really tiring and hot! I was sweating water fall. Hahahah. My feet hurts by standing for so long.

Rested for an hour and a half.

Eyes were swollen from the glue. Wasn’t ready at 530pm. Wtf right?!

She was really good! Make up and hair was perfect.

I know. She can’t take her eyes off me. Hahahahaha.

Hahahahahahha.

Second look with the Angel.

Another pumpkin

Finally!

#johnhillary

Actual Day

  

 

We got married on 23rd September 2015. There’s not much story to tell because the process of getting married wasn’t the best moment in our lives. We were at our lowest of low, but we are glad things have changed since then.

 

 

Pre Wedding Shoot

We’ve spent RM8k for the pre-wedding photoshoot, this is somehow a very common thing every soon-to-be married couple do. We did the pre wedding shoot, and use these photos on the actual day.

Picking up dresses and deciding is pain in the ass. But, we get to negotiate a deal for shooting a family portrait.

Some behind the scene taken by my brother-in-law:

Final Outcome:

p/s: the photo was only ready after 3 months of waiting.

The ROM

Everything looks so beautiful here. But you know what happen before this? War. I have been fighting with him almost everything about delaying the ROM because of my parents. He insisted to get it done. Well, to be fair. I wanted to get it done myself but I want to delay because of my parent’s will. Get it? I personally didn’t want anything to delay. I want the reception to delay because I don’t want to spend their money. LOL

Well, I told my parents that the wedding reception has been delay or cancel. Replacing it with our travel wedding. We are going to somewhere in two years time. They were saying why delay that when you are still getting the paper sign? Why not delay that as well? And I didn’t say anything after that, cause I knew it’s pointless to say it and no matter how legit my reason is, they won’t buy it. (I literally just inform them.) This is not a good move. This is bad. Because we don’t discuss, I decide everything myself which makes things worst. So bad I want everything to start over. I am worried that I will have depression seriously. I have been worrying so much about shit like this. 

The Registration Of Marriage was held in the Kompleks Kementerian Dalam Negeri Kuala Lumpur at Jalan Duta. It was very nice. We didn’t expected a big spacious venue to began with. But everything inside was romantic, clean, sweet and blessing. I have my best friends and my brother. John has his best friend and his family. Well, I was sad and he knew it. He couldn’t do anything but to promise to love me so much to comfort me. I am so touch that all my bestie applied their half day leave to attend the ceremony and I really really am grateful for that. What’s more to ask for?

John kept on praising me which makes me blush. Haha. He did that when I attend Vince’s wedding and I thought he is really sweet. Hearing it with my own ears make it sweeter. Hubby is being romantic. 

Our family. 

Our besties!

May I present Mr and Mrs Tan